TOP 5 THINGS MEN LOSE WHEN THEY COMMIT

First things first, we are not advocating lack of commitment in men here, we are simply having a man to man talk. So, let me be very clear. While long lasting relationships is a great idea, there are certain things a man definitely will lose when he commits to a woman. You’ll get your share of happiness- agreed, but there will be a lot of risks as well after you take the leap. Get it all figured out before as we tell you 5 things that men are most likely to lose after they are committed to their partner.cp.jpg

1) Your Control

This one is probably the reason why most men are not willing to commit in the first place. Perhaps you can blame the society or your family who instill fear about how a woman will come around to ‘control you.’ That said it’s not entirely untrue. From your weekend plans to vacation plans to the clothes you wear or the hairstyle you sport, a lot about how you look and where you go will now depend on what she decides.

2) Female Friends

There is no denying the fact that changes do occur in your friendships, especially female friendships when you get a girlfriend. You won’t be able to spend as much time with them, definitely not alone, as she’ll always be accompanying you. Now there may be an isolated case or two where you can keep your friendship with other women as is, but those are few and far between.

3) Your Personal Space

Generally commitment comes along with spending maximum time together, sometimes it means living together entirely as well, which of course can drastically reduce your privacy. Soon you’ll find your house in order, which you’re not used to, feminine products in the bathroom, utensils in the kitchen et al. Moreover, be ready to be bossed around – there will be a list of things that you wouldn’t’ be allowed to do. So, you might as well kiss your privacy goodbye.

4) Your Lack Of Accountability

Before commitment your actions always went unnoticed. You could do anything not having to think about what the other person feels. After commitment, you’ll have a new set of feelings which you’d have to consider always before you do anything. So, that adrenaline filled camping trips with your guys or the X-box time with your buddies during the weekends will now be like a distant dream.

5) Your Casual Fun

Casual flirting is the first thing that has to be given up when you come in a serious relationship. When it comes to commitment there are boundaries for interaction with other women. Flirting has to be measured and contained before it turns to anything scandalous; unless you want to deal with crying and broken teeth.

5 Money Habits That Turn Her On

Money is a tricky business, and who knows better than we men! Especially when it comes to revealing money matters in front of a woman. Research shows that women are attracted to savers rather than spenders. Saving is related to conscientiousness and commitment, and stronger willpower. All good, but another study also shows that savers are considered less exciting than spenders. So where should we draw the line? Good news: excitement is not something women prioritize for long-term relationships. Show her the money, but show her how smart you are with the money, and you are sure to catch her eye.

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Go On A Hiking Trip

Ideally to a waterfall or an overlook or some unexplored corner of the suburbs-and pack a picnic to share there. It will be a win-win situation: You are not being unimaginative on a fancy dinner at a fancy regular dine-in and at the same time you’re giving her a new experience.

Cook Dinner Together

Offer to cook one of her favourites (even if both of you don’t know how to cook it). This pushes you out of your comfort zone and creates fun memories for you guys to laugh at in future if the dish turns out to be a failed attempt.

Indulge In A Retro Date

Plan a theme night and pick out crazy outfits for each other. Then head out on the town in your new ensembles to raise a few eyebrows. By the time you get back, you will have numerous stories.

Dream Big…Together

Nothing woos a woman better than a man’s strong idea of what he wants. And if you can match your wants with hers, you will strike gold. Discuss the dream house, talk about that trip to Venice or owning a farmhouse full of dogs. It will convey that you are thinking long-term, and that always makes a man sexier.