There’s a character called Mike on the hilarious American sitcom, ‘My Boys’ – a commitment-challengedman who is always trying to hit on younger women but is never successful.
You’re out with friends and you see these hot and young twenty year olds or women in their thirties and immediately you want to go over and talk to them. But you feel that she will reject you because of your age. ‘I’m too old for her,’ you might think, which is a fair call if you’re thinking of hitting on a 25-year old when you need adult incontinence diapers to keep you from embarrassing yourself. But otherwise, you’re wrong. Attracting younger women is not as hard as you think. Men, just like women, want to feel they have it in them to attract people of all ages at any given point in their life. It is a HUGE ego booster. There is no special formula to attract younger women. It just calls for a mild alteration in your approach. Read on:
Well, just like you head to a museum or a library to meet intelligent women, you got to head to happening clubs, music concerts, coffee shops and other such places that is frequented by young folks to meet young women.
Once you spot the girl you like, approach her like you’d approach any other woman – be confident and be yourself. When talking to her, be respectful and act your age. You do not have to memorize cheesy pick up lines, just be forthright and direct. The key here is to not make her feel like a silly little girl. Treat her like an adult. Don’t act like her babysitter. Don’t be condescending or pedantic, but keep the conversation fun and interesting.
Use your maturity to your advantage. Bring in that sophistication. She must be tired of being hit on by immature, arrogant fools who think just saying, ‘Hey good looking’, is enough for her to put out. However young a woman is, she still wants to be wooed and be treated like a lady. Here’s where you step in.
Just because she smiled at you and shared a few jokes, don’t jump the gun and ask her out in your first meeting. That might turn her off and she might put you in the same category of desperate men who are just looking to score. Wait it out a bit. If she’s a waitress at a coffee shop, visit the shop once or twice. Be friendly, be funny during those interactions. Once you’re sure she demonstrates some sort of liking for you, go for it. The idea is to ask her out in such a way that she will say yes and nothing else. “You missed this great Metallica concert last night. I would have invited you but I didn’t have your number”– something to this effect. “I’m going for this stand up gig tonight. You game?” Act confident and sure of yourself. That automatically raises your attraction quotient.
Fine, you got a date. Now it’s time for the real thing. Till now, your interactions with her were limited. She has formed this image in her head of a man who is fun, charming, and sophisticated. Now it’s up to you to maintain that image. You have to display the same characteristics you displayed the first time you met her. Also, remember to not be too hasty when making your move, but also don’t leave it for too late either.
So, it’s not really that difficult to attract younger women. You just need to alter your approach mildly and find out things to talk about and do, which would keep her interested in you. It’s simple: with intelligent, mature women, you would probably discuss the world’s future, but with a much younger woman, you should pick things that are more current, like movies (‘The Avengers’), music (Bruno Mars), travel (Spain) etc. There’s no reason why you can’t be dating a younger woman. With some practise, you should be able to score a date with a beautiful young woman.