If you been left scratching your head, unsure whether your relationship is just going through a difficult patch or if your girlfriend is about to dump you, it is time to do some introspection. Try to analyze if the following signs have surfaced lately:
1. Conversations Have Turned Dry
When you guys talk, she sounds distant, no longer ready to quarrel or tease you in the manner she used to. From being a nit-picker in what you used to say, she has turned into a tolerant saint. She doesn’t mind the conversation to wander about aimlessly and doesn’t frown too much if you forget to call her. Usually, the facial expressions and the eyes speak a lot about the level of interest two folks share. If she seems bored or uninterested all the time, she’s definitely not into you as much she used to be.
2. She Needs No Reason To Criticize You
Agreed, you guys always had your differences and she often criticized them on your face but now it seems that everything about you is either upsetting for her or gets a comment insinuating what all you lack. While a bit of arguing can strengthen a relationship, misplaced excuses for arguments and an over-critical nature are suggestive of a breach in your bond.
3. She Doesn’t Want To Meet Your People
You had spent a lot of effort in making your friends like her but now, she isn’t ready to mingle with them in the least bit. All of a sudden, she has issues with your entire group and doesn’t refrain from suggesting that you have been brought-up in a wrong way! If her comments about such things edge on being insulting, be sure that the basic degree of respect that she had for you has now been flushed, indicating a forthcoming break-up.
4. The Sparks Are Now Missing
It is not just the physical attraction but something at the cerebral level too that has kept your relationship going so far. Your jokes, you way of pronouncing certain words and maybe the way you complimented her had always melted her. Now, it seems like these sparks have no affect on her, suggesting that the quotient of attraction has declined by a few notches.
5. Being Physical Just Isn’t Her Cup Of Tea Anymore
Not just getting animalistic in the bedroom but the usual ways of expressing your affection, including the tight hugs, kisses and caressing are now missing. When you try to indulge in these, she seems resistive like a nun. These are major indications that the physical equation that worked so well before no longer makes sense to her.
6. There Is No Talk Of The Future
Earlier, she couldn’t stop planning from the day after tomorrow and the weekend or talking about the chances of marrying someone like you and having a baby-girl. Now, any conversation that hints about future planning is missing from her dialogue, implying she doesn’t look upon this relationship to have much mileage left.
7. She Stops Being Her Usual Pretty Self
So far, she seemed so intent of dressing-up for the smallest of occasions you celebrated with her and at times, she seemed to have invested too much time and effort in getting dressed for something as casual as watching movie. Lately, she has become very lousy in her presentation, turning-up as if she woke-up from a coma. This definitely entails some degree of detachment from the emotional bonding that was once so strong.