Whilst it may not be possible to gauge exactly how much your girlfriend actually loves you, you can certainly read the signals when you know things are headed toward cheatsville.
Here are the top 6 signs to help you know:
1. The Lacklustre Kiss
The one act that draws two people closer is the depth and passion hidden behind their kisses. This is a sure-shot measure of the intensity of a relationship, however much you may hear of some being able to fake it. If you start to feel your ladylove lose that passionate touch in the way you guys kiss, read it as a warning sign!
2. The Cold Hug
The warmth of your love for each other is best expressed with the way you physically respond to the other’s touch. A hug that lacks the erstwhile warmth can well be the harbinger of troubled times. Is she contemplating warmer hugs elsewhere? Watch out!
3. Lost in Thoughts Expression
So, you feel that the days that you two could stay lost in each others’ eyes are long gone. While it is true that every relationship matures out of that puppy-love syndrome, complete lack of interest could only signify one thing – another man!
4. Lack of Passion in Bed
Faking an orgasm could well be the strong point of any woman. However, intimacy entails that sex only grows more passionate with time. If your girlfriend seems to be lacking the drive to make intimate love as you used to, she is obviously thinking of doing it with someone else. Moreover, if she resists foreplay, and wants to get on with the act to finish it quick, that’s a blaring sign right there!
5. Mistaken Utterances
Do you find that she often, mistakenly, utters the name of a place, person or object incorrectly, or worse still, calls you by another name? Unless she suffers a hereditary disease of some sort, the sudden occurrence of such errors could be leading her to the cheating side of town.
6. Lies about Schedule
Plain simply lying in the face is the most blatant of signs of your girlfriend about to or already cheating to you. If she says she is heading to the doctor with her grandmother, and you get to know she was actually at the mall, the trust factor is losing grip, buddy!
If you are clever enough to read one or more of any of the signs above, you can save yourself the pain and disgrace of being dumped for some girlfriend-snatching bloke. What’s more, you can save yourself the heartbreak too, and move on with your life. If she is actually contemplating cheating on you, she simply wasn’t worth it!
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