The trouble is most men don’t think they can turn on a woman. The bigger trouble—most of them are indeed right. This lack of confidence is what makes girls further avoid them.
However, setting your skills straight is not that hard after all. A sexually confident (read: not pervert) guy would appeal to a girl more than any freaked out soul. So how do you boost your sexual confidence? Read on:
Learn Some ‘Field’ Skills
You have to know how you can make her want more. Starting from how you make your first move to foreplay and then to the final act, you must know how to score a home run every time. Delay the final act as much as you can. Drive her mad, make her want you and then back off—only for a while. Watch how she throws herself at you then. Increasing the sexual tension before you get down to the ‘deed’ is highly recommended.
Stop Playing Games
One scenario where things go kaput for guys is when they are trying to trick the girl into bed and the plan becomes more than apparent to her (it becomes apparent to most of them by the way). Asking your male friends to give you the ‘ultimate fundas’ of getting a girl isn’t going to help you. Not even a bit. It would serve you better if you make yourself interesting enough to hang out with.
Your Looks Hardly Matter
You may be the hottest hunk around or you may be an average looking guy who hardly makes heads turn in a party, it does not make a dime of difference in the bed. In some cases, good looks might make it easier to hit it off with a girl, but when it comes to sex, you have to be a performer.
Take Things Easier
Stop worrying first of all. Sex may be a big deal for you but pretend that it is not. Be confident while making your moves and stop fearing that she might stop you or get offended by something. If that is the case, she will make it apparent. If you have any apprehensions while kissing or touching her, it will only compound your problems.
Sex has to be taken like sex, and not like an exam. Be an animal unleashed because that’s how women want sex to be—wild.
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